Don’t judge. Don’t judge me and don’t judge your neighbor. Don’t judge your friend and don’t judge your co-worker. I am a person with feelings and so is every other living being. I work hard to just survive some days just like so many other people. Please don’t judge me. Don’t judge me for being happy (because God knows that I am)..but also don’t judge me for feeling sad some days too. Don’t judge me for being a working Mom. Don’t judge me if I was a stay-at-home Mom. Don’t judge me that I’m not always here for my kids to welcome them home when they get off of the bus everyday from school. It pulls at my heart strings every morning when I have to leave them more than anyone could possibly know. Don’t judge. Don’t judge me for working too much or not enough. Don’t judge me for being an introvert and don’t judge me if I was an extrovert. It takes all kinds. Don’t judge me for the clothes I wear. Just don’t judge. I will wear my comfy clothes too often and sometimes I will dress up and wear my above the knee boots in maybe the strangest of places. Don’t judge. Don’t judge me if my kids go to school with shorts on on the coolest of days or maybe they are all cocooned up in warm clothes on a day that gets way too warm. Who has time some days to know exactly what the weather will do that day? Don’t judge me for not checking my kids school folders every single day. Some days I come home from work tired in all ways that a body can be tired and even pulling a folder out of a book bag seems impossible. Don’t judge me for posting too many pictures of my children on Facebook or Instagram. They are my world…and I’m proud of my world. Don’t judge me because my house is too nice or not nice enough. What does it really matter as long as what’s under that roof is full of love and happiness. Don’t judge me because my vehicle squeals as I head down the street. It’s paid off and has been my dependable ride for a very long time. Don’t judge me. Don’t judge me that yes…my mums are already dying as I sit here writing this blog. I admitted from the beginning that I have the opposite of a green thumb. Don’t judge. Don’t judge me that I sometimes grab my Coke Zero instead of my bottle of water or if I have chips and dip for breakfast (because yes..sometimes I do that). Don’t judge me if I gain a pound or ten pounds. Don’t…because trust me..I know. Don’t judge me if I stay awake at night worrying over the future of my sweet babies or if I wake up in the night in a cold sweat with an all out panick attack wondering if the type of Mom that I am is enough. We all have our vices. Don’t judge me. Don’t judge anyone. Let’s be kind. Let’s give a smile or an encouraging word to someone that may be struggling today. Let’s not judge. Embrace others. We are all trying to just figure this thing called life out the best way that we know how. Let’s take it upon ourselves to make a difference in someone else’s life..and just don’t judge..
Oct17
Very true. People need not be sooo judgemental because we need really know what’s truly going on in ones life. This world would be lot more happier.